Don't Forget

kiwipancakes:

The I in Lie: Monchele shippers:

breathofmidnightair:

butterflies-subsiding:

linseymorris:

f-rod:

butterflies-subsiding:

do you know what celebrating that you’ve ‘taken over’ one of the anti-tags by basically posting irrelevant things and hating…

Yeah I still don’t go tag anything as lol “any other rl pairing”, post or make negative comments on them. This has been a  problem since before the Monchele rumors escalate but, the fact that so many Achele shippers are dicks doesn’t make me say “I would really like Achele if it weren’t for the assholes that ship them.”

You can spin it as many ways as you want to spin it but the mith tag and the lol tags for two real people should not exist. It doesn’t matter how much you dislike the loud obnoxious Monchele shippers. It’s ridiculous.

Monchele shippers do also have their crazy ones that attack others. I have seen the most disgusting things from shippers of other couples and people that “don’t hate Lea or Cory”. I still don’t sit there calling them out on it. I also don’t sit here obsessing on how those few people can give fandoms a bad name. I ignore them or just don’t tag the posts I make about them in most cases, you should too. You directed that to all Monchele shippers and called us bullies for taking over a tag and I’ve also seen you call us out in the past in our own tag.

I know a lot of Monchele fans that don’t tag their posts because they don’t want anyone to attack them and even then they get attacked. You want to call out someone for being rude and a bully? Look at almost every group in the Glee fandom. I don’t appreciate you calling anyone out on anything because it’s not your right or job. I’ve received attacks, in fact the first opinion I ever posted got me an anonymous message about how I was an idiot and should get off the internet. That’s the welcome I got into the Glee fandom. This isn’t a problem of one group of people, every single group has it’s bullies. So you should be calling everyone out.

Also at this point when they’ve taken over? You’re posting it for them and you obviously knew it would get around and you still tagged it. You’re saying that the rude anti-monchele people are only a few and we should ignore them. You should do the same for the ones you consider the rude monchele ones. Those people that sit there and say all Monchele fans are obnoxious and bad based on a few encounters with a few select people? They’re close minded. There’s no other way to describe them. Block the ones that are annoying you if you need to, but it’s fairly dumb to tell me I should be upset with the rude people in my fandom when they bring me hate because everyone assumes we’re all the same based on their behavior. That’s like me meeting a few racist Christians and then assuming all Christians are racist. It’s ignorant and a perfect example of prejudice.

What’s really sad is that people think less of you or me because we do or do not believe two people are dating. That’s a real tragedy and it happens on both sides.

breathofmidnightair:

butterflies-subsiding:

linseymorris:

f-rod:

butterflies-subsiding:

do you know what celebrating that you’ve ‘taken over’ one of the anti-tags by basically posting irrelevant things and hating on every relevant thing that gets posted there makes…

 Most people who post in the anti-tags hate neither Cory nor Lea.  Sure, some do, but they’re the minority and their voices get squashed pretty easily.

So are you trying to say that the majority of Monchele shippers go to the anti-tags so this warrants for you to make a message directed to all Monchele shippers calling us bullies? We’re all in your tag bullying you? I mean you’re trying to say that we’re not allowed to try to squash out the people that bully us for just being happy a real life couple seem to be dating but it’s okay for you to call us out when that’s all we’re trying to do. If you don’t want to believe that they’re dating, congratulations. There are people in the anti tags that have gone on to say they hate Lea, and Cory should die, they call them names their opinions involve them saying that he’s a fat lard not good enough for their Lea.

No, because members of your fandom go through the tags, find anybody that posts in them, send them hate messages,

This is a problem everywhere, so again why is it your right to call the members of our fandom that do that out. It’s not a Finchel/Monchele thing despite what every other Glee fandom thinks.

You know what I think is bullying? The fact that if on Tumblr you happen to ship Finchel or like Monchele, your mental health is instantly questioned by a huge number of people and having a conversation with someone is impossible. People are constantly cussing us out yet they use our tags even when the anti ones exist. Either way no matter how you try to spin it an anti tag for two people that are real is wrong, it’s not ok and it shouldn’t be promoted.